The 3-night rule
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Hey Freaking Nomads,
I have a slightly embarrassing habit.
I land somewhere new and within about 48 hours, I've already decided how I feel about it. Sometimes faster.
I did this in Bangkok. Didn't sleep, woke up to a wall of heat and noise outside the window, and by lunch the next day, I was texting a friend that the city was "not for me."
I did the same thing in Mexico City. The Airbnb felt off. The neighborhood was confusing. Two nights in, and I was looking at flights.
Both of those cities are now places I genuinely love.
I think a lot of nomads do this and don't really talk about it. You arrive somewhere, and your brain immediately wants a verdict. Good or bad. Stay or go. Worth it or not.
But the version of you making that call is not a reliable narrator.
You've probably barely slept. You don't know where anything is. You haven't found a café you like, you haven't figured out the supermarket, you don't know which direction the nice part of town is in.
You're basically judging a place through the worst possible filter and then writing reviews in your head as if it counts.
So at some point, I made up a rule for myself. No real opinions for the first 3 nights.
And honestly, most of the time, by night 4, something shifts.
You sleep properly. You find a place that does decent eggs. You walk a different street and realize the neighborhood isn't what you thought.
The city didn't change. You just stopped arriving.
Sometimes, after 3 nights, I do still want to leave, and that's fine. But at least it's a real decision, not a jet-lagged tantrum dressed up as taste.
If you've just landed somewhere and you're already half-packed in your head, try it. 3 nights. No verdicts. See what happens!
Irene
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